Writing an Obituary

 

An obituary is a final opportunity to tell the story of your loved one. Writing an obituary is a thoughtful way to honor the dearly departed and celebrate their achievements and legacy.  While it may seem emotionally challenging, the obituary is the most appropriate way to announce their passing. It may also serve as a great way to process the grief you experience after your loved one has passed away.

 
 

Start With A Statement

 
 

As you begin to tell the story of a life well-lived, focus on passions and accomplishments.  Describe awards, career activities, hobbies, and volunteer activities. Begin with a simple sentence such as: “John Anderson of Ann Arbor, MI, father of five and Mechanical Engineer, died April 17th from cancer.” Keep it accurate, double check all names, dates, places, contact info etc. Include the deceased funeral arrangements.  Be sure to proofread spelling and grammar for any errors.

 

Most obituaries contain the following information:

  • Biographical facts

  • Photographs 

    • current or favorite photograph

  • Full name

  • Date of Birth 

  • Place of Birth 

  • Most recent residence

  • Date and the location of death

  • Cause of death.

  • Survivors 

    • List your deceased loved one’s spouse, children, and their spouses,   parents, siblings and other close relatives. Add predeceased loved ones in birth order after listing living family members

  • Background facts

    •  Accomplishments like education, employment, affiliations, hobbies, and charitable or military service.

  • Memorial services information

    • Provide the date, time and location of funerals, memorials, viewings or wakes.  Add the funeral provider’s contact information.

  • Suggested memorial contributions     

    • Request contributions to memorial accounts or charities. 

*Newspapers often have style requirements, word limits, and fees.